When it comes to finding methods to make sex a more erotic experience for both of you, some hot dirty talk can make a huge difference. Dissatisfaction and a sense of monotony can plague a sexual relationship over time. Has this happened to you? Perhaps sex seems more like a “chore” these days rather than something you’re yearning to do. Whatever happened to the passion you both once felt toward each other?
This sense of sensuality-lost can destroy your love life over time. If you want to rev things up again, you’ll need to add a new element to your sex life!
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Learning how to talk dirty is a fantastic way to start. Getting started can seem a bit bizarre at first. Perhaps you said a few sexy lines in the past that came out, or were taken, the wrong way. Below are several secrets to begin the right way and get comfortable with talking dirty.
Be You Some initial advice is to avoid pretending that you are in a porno movie. Your wife or girlfriend may take it as a bit strange. Belittling phrases like, “oh yeah suck it bitch”, or “turn around and let me pound your _____” will usually turn most women off. Preferably, stick to “feel good” phrases such as how much you love what she’s doing. So keep it mellow, such as, “Oh yeah honey, I love it when you get your lips all wet and do that to me”.
Hear how it sounds Imagine being with your woman the next time you’re pleasuring yourself and say some hot lines out loud that come to mind. Does it feel hot, or weird? During your next encounter, take a shot at saying some dirty lines and see how she reacts. Keep in mind that how she’ll react to your talking dirty has a lot to do with how “connected” she feels with you.
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Getting started Begin with some “aahh’s” and “oh, yeah” type sounds and phrases with some deep, obvious breaths. This will signal her that this is not just like any other sex you’ve had before, but that you’re feeling really passionate about this moment with her.
Acclamation When you verbalize how lovely her skin or curves feel, or how sexy she feels to you, she will love it! Tell her things like, “The way your ____ feels is so sexy,” or I love how curvy you are”. If you’ve heard the phrase, “flattery gets you everywhere”, well there’s no greater proving ground than in the bedroom!
Tell her what you like Every now and then,lines such as “Oh, the way you move against my _____ is so sexy”, or “I can’t wait to slide my ____ into your _____”. By now, things are really HOT, and the erotic talk you’ve started is most likely coming from her as well!
Keep it going Once you’ve had some sexy evenings, your girlfriend or wife could be ready to get even more daring and try some new ideas! Maybe reading some dirty stories together, or watching some porno flicks will be the next step to even steamier sex.
As cliché as it may sound, you’ll be amazed at how much a little erotic verbal effort on your part could go a long way to rekindle that old spark!
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