Using Body Language To Attract Women – Do You Make This Mistake?

July 24th, 2010

Using body language to attract women is one of the best things you can do if you’re  a guy looking to do better in the dating scene. First impressions count, and your body language is a major determinant of the first impression you make.

Beyond that, body language is a powerful communicator. Everyone responds to body language whether they are even aware it exists or not. Part of this is rooted deep in our genetics, so it’s not likely to change anytime soon.

The best use of body language is when it flows naturally from who you are. However it doesn’t hurt if you know how to use a few of the more common body language cues.

The main message that you want women to receive is an air of confidence and competence. Secondary messages are ones of openness and friendliness. You can best accomplish this with an upright posture that excludes control of the space around you. You should be willing to make eye contact but avoid annoying staring.

Part of the challenge is having this posture appear normal and natural. You don’t want to come off like a strutting rooster. Stay with it. The best way to have it appear natural is to make this posture your normal, everyday way of carrying yourself, not something you try to put on when you walk into a room and see some women are present.

The other basic body language message is your smile. A smile attracts many more women than a scowl.

Another way to convey openness and begin to generate attraction is to have your body squared off with the person you’re interested in. For example, if you’re talking with someone at a bar, go take your body so you’re facing them rather than just turning your head toward them as you talk.

You probably know that crossed arms gives off a negative, “stay away” signal. Unfortunately, almost as routine, many men generate a body language signal that is at least as negative as crossing their arms. This negative signal is the habit of sitting with the ankle of one leg resting on the knee of the other leg. That posture places your lower leg as a clear barrier between you and anyone close by.

These tips by themselves will help you prevent some of the common body language mistakes. As you pay a bit of attention to the way you carry yourself and the messages you receive back, in a very short period of time your body language will be remarkably effective in attracting women.

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