Seducing a woman is a gentle process with a number of steps, but if you can’t get beyond how approach women you’re not going to have much chance at Success. This article is to give you some advice approaching women effortlessly.
The main reason men hesitate to approach a woman is because they’re afraid of rejection. If you attempt to start a conversation with a woman, you’re making it known that you’re interested in her. You’re giving her the opportunity to respond positively or not. Getting rejected is no fun. It hurts. You need a defense.
Your best defense is a positive attitude about yourself and a realistic evaluation of the situation. High self esteem is your best ally. If you don’t feel good about yourself, don’t you think she’ll sense that? A man who is very confident and self-assured won’t be bothered by one woman’s opinion or even a group of women’s opinion. He’ll feel good about himself regardless of what they do.
Paradoxically, if you don’t care whether or not she rejects you it’s less likely that she will. The tough thing to do is developing the self confidence to get started.If you’ve had some success in life and with women, it’s easier to maintain your confidence once you’ve found it.
As in a lot of areas in life, it can make sense to “fake it ‘till you make it”. In your mind, decide how a truly confident man would feel and act and then act that way. Imagine how he would carry himself and adopt that posture.
It can help to practice by approaching and talking to women that you actually aren’t all that interested in developing any relationship with. Since you’re just practicing and don’t want anything from the woman, her response doesn’t really affect you and you can me more relaxed in the interaction.
Do your best to make a good first impression but if she rejects you, who cares? It was actually generous of you to gift her with your attention. One aim here is to get to the point that you’re comfortable approaching woman and honestly think it’s their loss if they miss the chance to know you better.
Developing this “it’s her loss ” attitude will keep you from appearing timid and insecure when you start approaching women you would like to meet.
In all of this you need to distinguish between strong self esteem and arrogance. A confident man doesn’t need to brag and he doesn’t need praise from someone else. His confidence comes from an internal knowledge of himself.
Also, don’t use or mislead any these women that you aren’t really interested in. It’s very likely that a number of women will respond positively to you. You might become interested as you get to know them, but if not don’t take advantage. After a while, tell them you enjoyed meeting and chatting and move on.
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